Alright, I had better reply to this for the man since I told him I wouldn't answer his question until he posted here on the forum.

(DJ, Do I get to keep my job now?)
Our workflow starts with how we shoot. We try to shoot on manual whenever we can so that we end up with batches of photos that were shot in one location that need to have the same edits done to them.
When we get back to the office, all of the files are backed up. Currently we are doing the workflow all on a PC.
We actually run a count of the number of images coming off of each card, and if a card is short for some reason, we note why that happened.
Next we open up DPP (Digital Photo Professional), Canon's RAW processing program. In this program we correct for white balance and density. If I see a file that is something I know for sure we won't use, I'll delete it, otherwise, I don't really narrow down the images a ton at this point.
Once all of the edits have been done in DPP (can usually figure on getting through about 1,000 images per hour), I export everything as jpg files.
We then open ACDSee and use this file viewing program for editting down the number of images. I am able to view the thumbnails, and also scroll through the images one by one at a larger size. This allows me to see the small details that change from one image to the next (DJ will tell you I burn through a ton of files with the motordrive when shooting) We take most weddings down to between 800 - 1,200 final images. Also, we are able to time sort all of the files in ACDSee so that they all appear in the order that we shot.
Once I have everything editted down and still time sorted, it's a breeze to categorize everything. I just start at the beginning and work through the wedding putting all the files into their corresponding files. I then renumber all of the files from 0001 up to the last file. The folder's are then renamed as we want them to appear on Pictage.
I then go in and grab our favorite images from each folder, make a copy of each, and place those copies into our favorites folder. Photoshop those images with some of our affects, such as the Lomo and Crossprocessing.
Then everything is uploaded to Pictage.
Wow... I didn't realize how much work was going on in all of that. Might have to ask DJ for a phatty raise