Hey guys...
...this is what I do (that really sets me from the others in this area)...now mind you, this past 12 months has really taken off for me because of this. I don't know if you're wives will agree...but I shoot my line of "FOR HIS EYES ONLY" or FHEO. When I initially meet the bride I offer this to her a la carte as a surprise to her hubby to be. THEY LOVE IT! They bring all their stuff from their lingerie shower and we take TASTEFUL pictures...not smutty...but very tasteful ones to just tease her fiancee with. They even sneak his work shirts and hobby type stuff. (in this area...I've been known as the TRASHY photographer.....JUST KIDDING!) Seriously though...the guys thank me for it!!
Another thing that I do...and this might just be because of who I am and my personality, is that I know when they book me like 12-18 months in advance I don't have much communication during the long gaps between our engagement and bridal portraits. So I make it a point to do girly girl stuff with them in our long gaps. I'm just the type of person that llllllloves to get to know and study new people! especially new people with a nice budget that can afford me

...but either way...big or small budgets this is how I am. I'll take them to lunch, go shopping with them, even get pedicures, or make a trip to a local spa, movies, etc etc, to just get to know them really well. (not all in one day, mind you!!) I realize that time is money...so I do include these little extraneous fees in their packages. By the time of their wedding when I'm shooting,...they totally trust me and feel like I'm their bestest friend.
For my weddings, (which is why I only stick to doing two a month) is because I cover two pre-wedding events. That can be anything to the bride's discretion. (which is usually the engagement party and bridal/bachelorette party). Again...this is a tool for me to get to know both sides of the family well. I take notes, I write people's names down and make it a point to memorize them. Saves a lot of boggled memory and embarrassment in calling people the wrong names.
Do I book everyone that wants to pay? Actually...no. Even if they have a million dollars to spend for their wedding photographer...if we do not have a connection...I will turn them down. Connection is such a great deal of importance to me. That is just how I work. Other wise I will be miserable. I pray about it...and just go from my instincts.
Linda...about grass stains....have you ever tried or heard of this method? It works great for me. get a white queen sized sheet ( really cheap one)...cut a hole in the middle of it big enough for her to move her feet's strides through. When your out doing location shoots with your brides...have her step in the hole and gather up all the corners of the sheet to hold. (so if you lift the corners wayyy high...just her legs will show!)So when she sits on the ground...you tuck the sheet underneath her dress and nothing wil get dirty.
Anyhow....I hope everyone had fun in their WPPI trip. I hope to be there next year!!!
KK