QUOTE (Barefoot-Memories @ October 5 2008, 06:35 PM)

"Sounds like you have a fun family reunion planned! I specialize in sessions for single families -- mom, dad and their kids (2 generations, not including cousins, aunts, uncles, etc). If you'd like the contact info for some photographers who do great work with large groups, let me know!"
When I was just starting, I took any client who would call.
I learned that I HATE:
-weddings
-family reunions & large groups
-posed sports team & indiv. pics
-indoor studio stuff
I'm pretty confident that if I turn down a big family reunion shoot, a smaller single family private shoot will come along, and I'll enjoy it more, do better at it, and still have the income w/out the headache of the big group. If another session doesn't come along for that day, oh well! fine by me.
Ok, thanks for that, but don't you develop relationships with people, like shooting the same family every year or every couple of months or whatever, and then because you've developed a relationship with that family, that you feel weird saying no when they ask if you'll shoot, I don't know, something like when all the cousins come to town?
Ok, that was a really long sentence.
But, um, that's my real issue. I have no problem saying no to new inquiries, but when an old established client asks me to shoot her great great grandmother's 100th birthday party, and she won't trust anybody else to do it, I just don't know how to say no to that. And, like, they're going to schedule the party for when *I'm* available. Don't know how to say no, so I just do it even though I don't really want to.
Then again, I do sort of "sell" myself like that -- "your lifetime photographer" so I guess I dug my own grave on that one. Still, I wish I could find a way to tell people I don't do ANY parties. CAREY! HELP!