Melody
September 14 2008, 04:18 PM
YEah, Jess & I had a blast with our sessions - but wow, was it hard work...
A few things that might help...
1. After lengthy discussion and checking some laws - Jess & I decided it would be VERY poor judgement to bring wine, as we'd planned, because of liquor/consumption/etc... laws. As a business, we would have needed a liquor license to do so. AND we would have needed to check ID's to insure clients were of age - and in all reality we would need to photo-copy them to cover our butts. AND we'd be responsible for them if they were to get in to an accident. Therefore - we determined that bringing or offering any kind of alcohol would be a bad, bad idea.
2. Advertising on Myspace, to strangers, for intimate sessions isn't going to work. You need to contact people who already know and trust you, are comfortable with you, and are interested in this type of session.
3. You're a man. Not to be sexist... but I don't see how men can possibly do this type of work on a high end level. I am sure that there are some who manage to accomplish it - but, women with boyfriends and husbands aren't likely to get naked in front of a man. (How would you feel about your wife posing semi-nude for another man?) A LOT of my boudoir clients will tell me that the first thing their significant others say (after they pick their jaws up off the floor) is "Who took these?" and they're always relieved that a female did them. Women are typically more comfortable semi-nude around other women, especially those who don't have perfect figures. I would find it difficult, if I were a man, to make sure I never crossed the line with posing, comments, etc... I always make sure to reassure my clients that they look fantastic, compliment them on their features, etc... and I can see how a man saying those things could totally be twisted in to "He was hitting on me".
4. Does the Chattanoogan know what you're doing? If not, make sure they're okay with it. Otherwise there's a real good chance of being evicted mid-session

5. You've given next to no details in your ad - no price, no length of session, nothing except the date and the place.
6. You aren't showing any boudoir type photos on the ad, there are none in your portfolio, it just looks like you've never done them before - and $450 is a steep session fee forsomeone who's just building a portfolio.
Good luck!