QUOTE(Rees @ July 23 2008, 07:36 AM)

It's not a stupid question, it shows genuine concern and that's good! It doesn't do any harm, but it can be kind of irritating to the baby. Just see how he/she reacts and adjust accordingly.
+1
After all these decades of parents taking pictures of their babies we would know if direct flash in the eyes caused problems, so I think you're safe using umbrella/bounced/softbox light.
About 4 years ago (wow, has it been that long?!) we hired a photographer to take some family and baby shots with out 6 month old. She also liked to use natural light, but had just got a 60" shoot-through thingy and wanted to give it a try. After the first flash my little one was so intrigued by the big bright flashy thing that he spent the rest of the session staring at it until the photographer gave up on the strobe and took it down.