In case you haven't, google "Irfanview" and download it. It's a free, windows-based image viewer that is about as lightweight and speedy as they come. It comes with a thumbnail viewer called "Irfanview Thumbnails" that it the fastest thing I've found for viewing RAW files.
I use Irfanview Thumbnails to select the images that I'm going to edit for reception slideshows. Two weddings ago I edited AND processed 59 images in 25 minutes for a slideshow, and last weekend I did the same in 45 minutes. My workflow is:
1) Dump files to hard disk.
2) Open photo location (the folder I dumped to) in Irfanview Thumbnails
3) Drag-n-drop the photos that I want to edit in the slideshow to a different folder
4) Open Lightroom and edit only those photos.
5) Voila - slideshow!
It's worth mentioning that you should download the plugin pack if you want RAW support.