Jill,
QUOTE(Jill Higgins @ July 8 2008, 11:10 AM)

Yes, I was exaggerating a little (maybe). But - I was not mispresenting an entire population's views based on my perspective. My beliefs are based on what I actually hear from my friends who are Democrats. They do say that they don't like our country - they just don't say "hate." They do moan and groan about other countries hating us, and they feel that other countries have a right to hate us. That, in my opinion, doesn't make my "hate" remark much of a stretch if any. The people I am referring to are not discussing a dislike of policies - they are discussing how horrible our country is.
Your other Democratic friends don't say "hate" because they don't hate. They are angry at what the Republican leadership has done to their country and how it has demonized Democrats by repeating lies like, "Democrats hate America." So, let's be clear, your Democratic friends don't hate America and probably agree when you say that this is the greatest country in the history of the world. That said, our country is not beyond reproach, beyond criticism and is CERTAINLY a work in progress and has been since the beginning. That's what democracy is about.
I'll stir up the hornet's nest in your head and see if you can parse this: Do I think it is reasonable that some other countries hate us? Hell yes! We have done awful things to some citizens of other countries. Does that lead me to hate my own country? Uh...no. It makes me want to change my country's course and make sure she is a better steward for democracy around the world. See...where I come from our right to criticize our government is the the ONLY thing that makes America great.
And just to drop another dime in the jukebox, your perception of how people feel doesn't change their actual feelings. When someone says they are frustrated and does like how their country is behaving, that doesn't change to hate just because it's convenient for you. Why don't you ask those friends if they flat out hate America and that you indicated on this forum that you said that. I think you will have a few Democratic friends who might be a bit miffed that you abused and misrepresented their options like that.
QUOTE(Shane Snider @ July 8 2008, 11:27 AM)

Ginger, I think you're awesome. We may have conflicting views, but I respect yours. I just don't like being treated like I'm not as smart as someone else because I don't feel the same way they do on certain issues. I think everyone feels this way. This is why politics is not polite dinner discussion.
You guys are not going to change each other's minds. You're only creating a divisive atmosphere here. You're not educating anyone.
And if anyone came up to me and told me I hated my country, I would pinch his or her nipples as hard as I could.
Shane, I disagree fundmamentally. I think these forums are extremely valuable. Quite a few people have PMd me thanking me for a tidbit of knowledge here and there. Just last week, Dawn repeated something about Michele Obama shouting racial slurs on a recording which doesn't exist. I may not have changed her mind about Obama, but her information is a little better today. AND she was passing the correction along to her family. That's no small beans.
The divisive atmosphere already exists. Just because we don't talk about it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I think people can have a great debate and remain friends. One of my good friends' husband is a writer for a major conservative news outlet and we spend tons of time debating issues. I got into one of the most interesting conversations of my life with a government contracter for the Pentagon on a plane once and we disagreed about everything. I wish you didn't feel so uncomfortable about these conversations, but since other people are enjoying it and seem to be getting something from it, why not let it happen?
QUOTE(Damon @ July 8 2008, 11:57 AM)

Politics. Religion. Money. = All bad dinner topics.
I have to echo Shane on this one. Even the "playful" back-and-forth stuff is too much (IMO)
There's still tons of photography-related things to discuss. Hey, some of that photography-related discussion might, like, actually help you make some money or something...
Damon, some of us think making money is all good, but we value the opinions and thoughts of other people here too. We are all swimming in the same pool and are of like-minds on many issues. It's REALLY interesting to see how people with in some ways similar lives have contrasting views.
QUOTE(Ginger @ July 8 2008, 11:57 AM)

Will I change who I vote for? Possibly not, but I am learning about where others who don't agree with me are coming from. Something I value.....whether others do or not.
Bravo! I totally agree and it's important as we move forward that when we hear an opposing party's leader say something that we *GASP* Agree with?!!!! We can support the policy even if we support the man.
QUOTE(JimCook @ July 8 2008, 12:34 PM)

But I must agree, right or wrong, that there is a growing democratic stereotype is that they hate this country.
It is a growing stereotype and it's generally held in the minds of Conservatives. Again, let's be clear: the VAST majority of Democrats do NOT hate America. If they hate anything, it's what conservatives have done with our government. To conflate the two is (sorry Jill) irresponsible and inaccurate. I know it makes you feel better to see Democrats as peeing on the graves of dead soldiers, flying the flag upside-down, worshiping Satan and hating your children, but just because you say/want it to be so doesn't make it so. Your leap between the two ideas is inaccurate and ill-rationalized. It would be like me saying a conservative hated America because it currently allows abortion. It just doesn't stand up.
"We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America."
Wow. That's an incredible first line. When's the last time anyone read the entire thing with Amendments? It's pretty amazing.