Regardless of what your prices are, you're always going to be "too expensive" to some people. If you charge $1000, you're going to be too expensive to the people who only want to spend $400. And if you charge $4000, you're too expensive for the people who want to spend $1000.
People will pay what they can afford to pay, assuming the they like your work and personality and are attracted by your marketing.
I, certainly, couldn't not afford to pay what we charge for photography.
QUOTE(Bellissima @ June 30 2008, 03:30 PM)

pricing is not magic, it's math.
figuring out what to charge is a combination of knowing your costs (what is costs you to be in biz and make a profit) and what the market will bear.
i do not photograph friends and family - unless it is my gift, so i don't care if they can afford me, and this whole problem is partially why. they do not understand the costs of owning a biz. they see me as someone who takes pictures.
Robin, you are brilliant.
Yes, it's basically a math problem. I posted a price-setting guide
here. Basically it's a matter of figuring up your real costs and setting a decent wage, and your prices kind of determine themselves. It doesn't matter what people are "willing to pay." If you do the math, and can't get prices to pay what it costs to live and save and produce...
We set our prices in this manner, and we do fine. My wife and I both work at the business full time, and I generally find our prices to be "above average," but for our troubles we live in a 1616 sq ft home in a low cost-of-living, semi-rural part of Florida (no state income tax yeah!!) and drive a Honda Pilot. No X5 in my garage

However, we have health insurance and a retirement plan and a take a vacation or two every year, and generally enjoy life. But we are by no means "wealthy."
I don't really want to discuss specific numbers because they vary so widely from area to area, from product & service level to product & service level, and also...I hate to say it, but it's the internet, and people lie like crazy. There's some kind of bizarre pissing contest that goes on between photographers about "who charges the most for a wedding!" Don't believe anything you read

Thankfully, though, you don't actually have to. Did you know that parts of
business IRS tax returns are actually publicly available? And that from a few simple internet searches you can derive the gross sales numbers for other photographers? And that...sad to say...in many cases, the numbers don't exactly match up between photographers' claims on the internet and their actual business tax returns?
So, don't pay attention to any numbers you get here. Just do your own math, figure out what
you actually need to be profitable and fulfilled in your life, and charge that. If it turns out you can't get the dollar amounts you need to satisfy those requirements, create a plan that will allow you to achieve those goals. When it comes down to it, the only thing that doesn't lie is the numbers

Pay attention to the numbers, and ignore egos (your own and those of others) and you can find a solution that will work for you

Cheers,
Matt