Hey thanks Shane. To a point though, photography (in the small technical area of exposure)
is about what your meter is telling you...but you have to interpret what the meter is telling you. If all you're doing is lining up that indicator with the dead-center of the exposure meter in the viewfinder, that's not going to give you a good exposure unless your subject is, in fact, 18% gray. So getting good exposures from an in-camera meter is about looking at the scene, evaluating it's "grayness" and then setting the camera to give you a good placement of the exposure indicator
for a scene of that grayness. So, for instance, in the case of doing a close-up detail of a bride's white dress, that probably means you want the exposure indicator to read 1.5-2 stops
over the middle of the exposure meter.
And like you said, the beauty of digital is that, immediately afterwards, you can check your histogram to see how close your guess was. Histograms are great tools, but, just like the reflective meter, they're tools that have to be interpreted by the trained and experienced eye. There's no such thing as a "correct histogram." There's only a "correct histogram for a particular scene." Once you're able to understand the relationship between what a scene looks like, and what kind of histogram a scene of this type should produce, then you're able to use your histogram to check your exposures.
Also, I received a PM from someone with a further question about this topic. Since I went to the trouble of writing out a reply, I figured I would post it here for everyone to see. I'm sure if one person has a question, others have the same one.
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your posts have been wonderful, very clear explanations of exposure and flash and i actually felt a light bulb appear over my head when i read this:
Now you're talking. If instead you set your camera to expose for the sky, f/16, and then added a light set to about f/16 to the shadowed area under the rock, you'd be able to expose them both at the same time. We can't subtract light from the sky, but can add light under the rock.
so i got up and ran for my flash, and realized that - oh wait - i have no idea how to 'add a light set to f/16' - how does that translate to the settings on the back of my flash?
Your flash output is, for lack of a better word "power." Now, how that flash power turns into a particular f/stop depends on 3 things: the power of the flash, the distance from the subject, and the ISO you're using for the image. For a given flash output power, the higher the ISO, the greater the f/stop of light that power will produce, and the closer the subject is to the flash, the greater the f/stop.
Any doubling of the film speed will increase the f/stop output by one stop (and remember, the "full-stop" increments are f/2.8, f/4.0, f/5.6, f/8, f/11, f/16). If you halve the distance between the flash and the subject, you increase the f/stop by 1 full stop. If you double the distance between the subject and the flash, you decrease the f/stop by one full stop.
Now, for a particular flash power and ISO, (and distance too, just because of flash spread) this relationship between the distance and the f/stop is called the "guide number" for your flash. The GN is equal to the f-stop times the distance between flash and subject.
GN = f-stop x distance
Your flash should come with a guide number table, that tells you the GN for different film speeds and flash powers. For instance, your flash might have a GN of, say, 64 at ISO 100 for it's "full-power" setting, so in this example where I wanted f/16, I would divide 64/16 and get 4ft. So my flash has to be four feet from the subject in order to illuminate it at f/16.
Some of you might now be saying, "Hold up a sec Radlinski. Didn't you say the exposure under the rock was f/2.8 already? And now you're adding this flash to it, at f/16! So the correct exposure under that rock will be f/16
plus f/2.8, fool!" That's true. The proper exposure is the ambient light exposure plus the flash exposure. But let's look at what f/16 + f/2.8 means.
F-stops are logarithmic functions. That means when going from one f-stop to the next, we're dealing in
powers (exponents) or two, not, say,
multiples of two. If at f/2.8, it requires a certain amount of light to expose a scene properly, then at f/4.0, it requires twice as much light as at f/2.8. And at f/5.6, it requires twice as much light as at f/4.0, or
four times as much light as f/2.8. So you can see where this is going.
If the exposure under the rock had been, say, f/11, and I added a flash set to f/16 there, that would change my exposure dramatically. f/11 is half as much light as f/16, so f/16 + f/11 = f/16.5. In that case, I would have set my flash to f/11 instead of f/16. f/11 (ambient) + f/11 (flash) = f/16 (total). But f/2.8 is five stops less than f/16, which it makes it 1/32nd as much light. So f/2.8 (ambient) + f/16 (flash) = f/16.03, which is essentially f/16.
And finally, this is all just theory. In the real world, I'd have a vague idea of the power of my flash from experience after initially gaining familiarity using the guide numbers, I'd put my flash about where I think it should be for a given ISO, power level, and f-stop, and then I'd run up to the subject with a light meter, fire off a test shot, and adjust accordingly. If the meter reading said I was underexposed, I'd either increase the flash power or move the light closer. If it said I was overexposed, I'd decrease the flash power or move the light farther away.
And finally, finally, all we're talking about here are the general mechanics of exposure and
quantities of light. What actually makes a pleasing image (or an image that communicates whatever it was we wanted to say to begin with) is
quality of light. Just because you're using the correct amount of light in a scene, doesn't mean it's being used in a way to produce the desired artistic effect you want. So while the exposure is important, it's also important to consider the direction of light, and the quality (i.e., softness or hardness) of the light. And modifiers that you add to change the quality of the light, like umbrellas or grid spots, are going to effect the guide number of your flash anyway, which is why I always meter and/or check the back of my camera.
Hope that helps

Matt