I'm still a newbie, but in my few months of practice, I've had one concept rattling around in my brain that has been reinforced by everyone I've had the privilege of photographing...
You have to LOVE your clients, and honestly be excited about sharing their moments and memories. People hire you because they like the way you see things and if you don't like the people you're shooting, I think it will be evident in the images you create. If you don't SEE beauty in everything, how can you expect to CAPTURE beauty in everything?
My dad's the kind of person who really likes everybody. And consequently, almost everybody likes him. He sees the good in people and literally forgets the bad. Has this left him open to be taken advantage of? Yes. But he has refused to become jaded; he still keeps that positive attitude, and people still want to be around him, and he has been immeasurably successful in his business because of it.
So here's my advice, as concise as I can make it:
Take a good look at yourself and figure out whether you mostly see the good in people, or mostly see the bad. If you see the bad, take some time to try and change your attitude so you can be completely honest when you tell a bride that you want to share her special day, no matter how frazzled, controlling, snippy, or bridezilla-like she gets. See the best in everyone.
