Jules
November 26 2007, 06:19 AM
QUOTE(LisaC @ November 25 2007, 09:16 PM)

I LOVE being around people and meeting new people...but I didn't get comfortable handing out my cards to those I just met until lately. I would often shake my head and think "wow, I am doing what I love and I love talking to people all the time...why is it hard to hand out a card and even ask for the business?".
First rule: take your BIG PRO camera EVERYwhere you go and take pictures LIKE A PRO everywhere you go (you know, with that certain way a pro stands when taking pictures)

Second rule: always have business cards in your pocket.
You are friendly and approachable, so people will ask you about the camera. (I'm mostly talking about parents at these social and after-school functions you're always going to.) Once they ask about the camera, there's your opening to start blabbering about your LOVE of photography!

Third rule: Once they open the door by asking about the camera, START TALKING!
Well, that's how I do it anyway.
I get the feeling you enjoy shooting families the most, I could be wrong, but if that's true, then GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT TO DO with all the gusto you have in your heart and in your head.
When I first started, there was a lot of negativity around me -- people giving me subtle messages that I couldn't do this thing I always dreamed of doing -- that it wasn't possible or that it was unrealistic to think I could actually succeed.
So I fought back.
I had a very specific SIMPLE little trick which I can PM to you if you like. It was just a simple way to tell myself that I would win this fight and prove to everyone that I COULD do it, that it WAS realistic and that I WOULD win.
Seems to be working pretty good so far.
Probably my single best source of referrals is my church. I'm very active and one of the things I do there is volunteer to take the new member portraits. (It used to be that there were snapshots -- really bad flash ones with red eyes and wood panel wall backgrounds -- yuck) so now there's an entire WALL of my pictures in the narthex when you come in the front door. My name is NOWHERE. But EVERYBODY asks about the pictures, and that's the key -- the pictures being there with NO PHOTOGRAPHY CREDIT has everybody talking about me. And it has everybody ALWAYS asking me about my business, and that's when I get to give them my business card. (When I actually take the pictures, the people being photographed get a business card too, and I tell them that if they like the picture that I put on the bulletin board, I will give them prints in exchange for a donation to the church's mission fund. I don't like making money off of pictures that are directly related to church activities, but the referral business is pretty sweet. And the donations have come to around $600 this year. That's pretty sweet too.)