QUOTE(tami @ August 31 2007, 12:52 PM)

is it a man touching another man's butt cheek that is the crime, i mean sin here?
why?
you interpreted it as a sin, which kinda makes me wonder why.
Yes it is a sin since it was done in for selfish reasons.
ie. As a joke in order to cause Mike to believe the woman giving the massage was getting fresh with him. It WAS a sexual prank, and therefore is sinful in the eyes of God. And what I saw on the vid was not hand on butt cheek - but rather, fingertips sliding down crack. Either way - eeeeeeewwwww!
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johnny, i really have nothing against you personally, but i have to say, i have never been more glad to be an agnostic than i am right this very minute.
I know you don't - and to be honest, I haven't taken anything you've said personally.
I genuinly want to understand why people think this behaviour is okay and I genuinly want everyone to understand why, to a devout Christian, this behaviour is not okay.
And it may seem wierd to hear (read) me say this, but I am glad you feel more grounded in your beliefs. That is the wonderful thing about the Word of God - it polarizes people and makes you choose which road to go. God will be glorified.
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are you tired? because it must be really taxing to have to watch yourself so closely day in and day out - your guidelines are quite stringent, it looks to me as if there is no room for error, else you go to hell.
Actually, I was more tired when I lived and believed like everyone who disagrees with me in this thread. But no, I am not tired of having to check myself. I do get tired when I witness and usually need to nap afterwords since it takes so much energy to stand up in these last days. My guidlines aren't mine by the way, I did not make them up - I just follow them.
Remember the quote in 1984? Freedom is Slavery & Slavery is Freedom?
I am not a slave to this world but am free (and energized) through Christ Jesus.
Now - I promised I was done, but had to reply one last time to your specifc question Tami.
But I have said enough and will no longer debate this specific issue on the forum.
Feel free to pm me (anyone) if you wish to continue.
Peace to you all